21 Days of Love
SPECIAL OFFER FROM Rhonda Britten
Why practice self-love?
When you decide to practice loving yourself, your opinion of yourself changes.
Things that felt impossible for you become possible.
When you decide to practice loving yourself, your self-blame and judgment decrease, and your appreciation and gratitude for yourself and others INCREASE.
Loving yourself allows the art of love to be conscious.
When you practice loving yourself, you automatically receive the gift of love from others because now you can SEE IT, FEEL IT, and EXPERIENCE IT.
Not sure you want more love?
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Nina: Hi Rhonda. What I want to know is: What’s blocking me from finding love? I don’t know what will work. I keep attracting the wrong men and I am not even doing anything wrong. I follow the tips on where to go to meet good men, I do the six-second smile, etc. But I keep attracting the wrong men. I think I am fairly okay-looking… Is it my looks, age, what?
Imagine this scenario
There’s an elderly mother living with her daughter’s family. Every day she wakes up earlier than everyone else and cooks a big breakfast. She then cleans up, herself, after all that work because she wants to.
She knows the whole family has to go to work and school, so she WANTS to help them. She spoils the heck out of the grandkids, and happily babysits them at a moment’s notice if her daughter wants to go out. The elderly mother loves the opportunity to live out her remaining years being so close to family.
Even her son-in-law, who was initially hesitant about having her stay with the family, has come around to love her and appreciate how much better the family lives (and how much more freedom he has with his wife) thanks to the mother living with him.
Now imagine instead
This elderly mother wakes up every morning and thinks about how bad her life is. She scowls at the thought that she’s old and alone, and that she has to live with her daughter because she isn’t independent enough.
Because she sits around all day doing nothing, it makes her even crankier. She wants to yell at the children, her daughter, and her idiot son-in-law for EVERYTHING, but instead, she fake-smiles all the time to make it seem like she’s a nice person, even though everyone can still smell the tension in the air.
It fools no one.
She then thinks, “It’d be better if I were dead.”
And deep down inside, maybe her daughter thinks so too…
Can you clearly see what the elderly mother is doing wrong?
First of all, she starts out her thinking process by thinking about everything that’s wrong in her life. Before her feet hit the ground in the morning, she’s already negative about everything. She then goes on to blame her daughter, her son-in-law, her deceased husband, her doctor, and her bratty grandkids for her miserable situation. She never once thinks that there’s something wrong with what SHE is doing.
It’s always someone else at fault.
Her daughter isn’t considerate of what she needs.
Her son-in-law isn’t thoughtful about her needs.
Her bratty grandkids only ask her to play games they like, and never think about what she likes.
Then she says, “I wish I had a different family! Why is THIS my family?”
Now here’s where it gets weird.
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Nina (our young woman having trouble attracting men) and the cranky elderly woman in our story…HAVE THE SAME EXACT PROBLEM.
They both feel that they’re surrounded by the wrong people in their lives.
— Nina attracts the wrong men.
— The elderly woman has the wrong family.
— They both make other people responsible for their happiness when, in reality, there’s only one person responsible for that. (Hint: it’s you.)
— Nina blames men for not approaching her when she looks at them for six seconds.
— The elderly woman blames every member of the family for not doing exactly as she wants (but never opens her mouth to tell them).
— Nina and the elderly woman could love themselves more.
Instead of asking, “Are they gonna love me? Are they gonna love me?” they should say, “How can I love?”
If Nina keeps placing her happiness on random men, she will continue to attract the exact same guys over and over. She will continue doing superficial things like “smiling for six seconds” and “going to the right places to meet a man”—shallow tactics and strategies—rather than doing the inner work necessary to truly transform her relationship to love.
What does she need to do?
She could benefit from being loved up more by learning to love herself. Instead, Nina gets PISSED OFF when she sees this girl across the bar. “She looks like she didn’t even do her hair before meeting her friends at the bar. Idiot. And she’s wearing flats, but this bar is a heels kind of place.”
…But guys keep going up to this frumpy girl, and skipping over Nina, even though she did her “smile at a guy for six seconds” routine.
She blows off the girl, thinking, “Oh, she’s easy, and will probably sleep with a guy right away, so that’s why they approach her. Yup, THAT’S WHY.”
Nina is justifying it in her head. You can smell the denial more than her designer perfume.
But the real reason why guys are approaching the “alright-looking” girl is because she is with her friends, laughing it up, having a great time, and is at that bar to simply have a fun time with her friends.
Her agenda is NOT to meet men. Her agenda is NOT to make sure at least 7 guys hit on her tonight.
And when guys see this girl enjoying herself (i.e. loving herself), they find this instantly attractive.
Approaching her would be fun!! But…
Approaching Nina would bum them out.
Approaching Nina would be nerve-wracking.
Approaching Nina would be like getting married on the first date.
Nobody’s attracted to agendas . . .
Okay, so how much of Nina do you see in yourself?
This is the secret: You have to fill up your LoveTank with love before you’ll have enough love to give out to others!
Imagine walking around being filled with love. You won’t NEED the attention of random dudes to be happy.
It’s not always the easiest thing in the world, but I want to hold your hand through this process and help you fill up the LoveTank.
Every choice you make is either out of fear or love. If you want less fear, then you’ve got to learn this “love” stuff once and for all.
The root of most of our problems is not feeling loved enough:
— A naughty child… his LoveTank is low.
— The cranky elderly mother… her LoveTank is low.
— Nina getting mad that her Six Seconds of Smiling technique isn’t working… her LoveTank is low.
— The next woman you see raiding the double chocolate cookie dough freezer at 3am… her LoveTank is low.
— If you’ve ever wondered why you feel lonely… your LoveTank is low.
— If you’ve ever wondered why you don’t have enough loved ones in your life… your LoveTank is low.
So go ahead and sign up for the class. This can be the start of a beautiful new re-birth of yourself.
Instead of spending money and time on shallow tactics and strategies to change yourself on the outside, invest your time in loving yourself on the inside, for real.
Every day you will be in contact with others who are looking to love more, and every day you will be getting lessons on HOW to love more.
I can’t wait to share this experience with the new class, and I sincerely hope you’re a part of it.
If you’re a little uncomfortable with change, that’s GOOD. Changing something is always scary, thank God you have The Fear Expert holding your hand!
**You can cover up your insecurities with make-up and an $800 dress… but all the problems are still there.
**You can escape to exotic locations across the world, but your problems will be carried with you in your backpack.
How much are you loving yourself in every moment?
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Here’s what you get:
Item 1
4 Group Coaching Webinars with Rhonda
MP3s (Value: $597)
Group coaching webinars.
Item 2
Daily Love Notes
Video, MP3, or Email (Value: $250)
Videos, audios, or written to keep it fresh and fun!
Item 3
21 Days of Love Community Group
(Value: $47)
Surround yourself with like-minded people who want what you want: a life of LOVE and FREEDOM.
Special offer
21 Days of Love
- 4 Group Coaching Webinars with Rhonda
- Daily Love Notes
- 21 Days of Love Community Group
TOTAL PACKAGE VALUE $894
Special Offer
$97
About Rhonda Britten
Rhonda Britten has devoted her life to teaching people how to master fear. She has created a method for anyone, anywhere, to master the insidious fear we all have of ‘not being good enough.’ What she teaches is what she’s lived. An Emmy Award winner and repeat Oprah guest, Rhonda was the first Life Coach on reality television in the world. Best known for her work on the hit NBC reality show Starting Over, she was named its most valuable player by The New York Times and “America’s Favorite Life Coach” by TV Guide. To date, Rhonda has altered lives in over 600 episodes of reality television in more than 25 countries, and impacted millions worldwide. Rhonda is a recipient of the Smart Women of the Year Award, is a blog favorite at HuffingtonPost.com, and speaks at TedX and for numerous corporations and organizations such as Southwest Airlines, Blue Shield of California, Northrup Grumman, and many more. Rhonda’s four books include her bestselling Fearless Living—which shares her groundbreaking work called the Wheel of Fear—Change Your Life in 30 Days, Fearless Loving, and Do I Look Fat in This.
Special offer
21 Days of Love
- 4 Group Coaching Webinars with Rhonda
- Daily Love Notes
- 21 Days of Love Community Group
TOTAL PACKAGE VALUE $894
Special Offer
$97